So this year I’ve decided to do something kind of typical, something a lot of other people will be giving up: Facebook (except for posting my blog).
There are several reasons why I’m giving it up:
- I use it to compare myself to others WAY too often
- I end up trying to feel connected to others in this rather disconnected way, by constantly checking status updates throughout the day when I end up alone in my house caring for my small child.
- I stalk Facebook when I should be stalking God. I have a Common Prayer app on my phone that alerts me when to pray the offices of the day. Lately, when the buzzer sounds, I don’t pray. I look at Facebook. I know. Pretty bad.
In the past, I’ve given up things that were much more difficult for me, much more central to my life, like TV and reading. I’ve only been at it for two days, but not checking Facebook hasn’t been that big a deal. It was just a bad habit I was developing, and getting in the way of a more important habit I want to cultivate: talking with real people in my neighborhood in real time.
I figure that the time I spent trying to feel connected on Facebook is time I can use to go walking in my neighborhood, venturing out, nurturing new relationships. I’ll let you know how it goes.